Selfishness

I believe all suffering is caused by ignorance. People inflict pain on others in the selfish pursuit of their happiness or satisfaction. Yet true happiness comes from a sense of peace and contentment, which in turn must be achieved through the cultiv”

So very true!!!

Some people will do whatever it takes and hurt who ever they want just so their own selfish desires will be fulfilled!

Whats more important?

Earlier today i was talking to a friend about cars, money and such.
He is in the market for a new car. I told him to look at the new Dodge Durangos.
He does, then says that they arent that expensive! Hmm- they range between 30-40k. To me-thats hella expensive. He then brags about his job and the amount of money he makes.
I got to thinking...
Sure-I would LOVE to make more money than I currently do. Who wouldnt, right?!
But would it make me happier? Who knows! But chances are probably not...
My friend may have a great job, but he is alone in life right now. He has to move from place to place. Maybe that works for him...Id rather be poor and with someone i love than to be rich and alone...

This is my current thought for the moment.

Annoyed

Some people really can frustrate me.
It's like they can just flip a switch and not even care...
I had a good friend. We talked daily. Now im lucky if i even hear a hello come from him.
Why is that? Am i no longer worthy enough to be your friend?

All things are difficult before they are easy

So, today i have no desire to work...
I have no focus either.

Somthing that has been bothering me...and im not sure how to approach the situation.
I'll give you all the 'low down'

I have a friend (one of my good friends) for now, we'll call her Suzie.
She just had a baby about 2 months ago.
He has been very sick with all kinds of issues...
Suzie smoked during her pregnancy. Sometimes i wonder if that has anything to do with the issues he has.
Also during her pregnancy she would go out the bar every wkend. To me i think that is kind of trasy for a pregnant woman to go to the bar. Granted she wasnt drinking its still trashy. Again-just my opinion.
Well, even after she had her baby she still manages to go out to the the bars!
C'mon now! She has an ill baby thats in the hospital and she goes out to the bar!
I want to talk to her abou tthis but im not sure how to tell her that what i think she is doing needs to change...
I mean, if i had a sick child i certainly would not be going to the bars!
She is running with some trashy people too, IMO.
Maybe i need to just let the situation be and let her mess up her own life.
Live and learn, right?
TBC...

thoughts

Blogs have become an interesting thing to me lately.
I dont have much time to spend writing on my own but i do enjoy reading what others have to say.

After reading a blog by lil miss. I have to say that i truly appreciate our friendship.
She is such a kind hearted girl. Fun loving and genuine!
I dont think i let her know how much i appreciate her! You are a stellar friend!!!